Lately, the idea of weddings has been coming up often in my personal study. First, it appeared while I was reading the closing chapters of Revelation and the wedding supper of the Lamb. More recently, it came up again while reading Matthew chapter 22. With my curiosity now piqued, I decided to explore this topic further.
The Sadducees’ Marriage Question
The first question that came to mind arose from Matthew 22:23–32. The Sadducees—who did not believe in the resurrection—asked Jesus a question about a hypothetical situation. A woman had been married to seven brothers, one after another, because each husband died. They asked Jesus: after the resurrection, whose wife would she be?¹
So what was Jesus really doing in His answer (vv. 29–32)?
- Was He only answering the Sadducees directly?
- Was He commenting on earthly relationships?
- Or was He explaining what relationships will be like after the resurrection?
A Direct Challenge, Not a Casual Answer
The main point of Jesus’ answer becomes clear when we recognize that He is directly challenging and correcting a false belief. This passage begins with a rebuke, not a gentle explanation. Jesus says:
“You are mistaken, not understanding the Scriptures nor the power of God.”²
That sentence tells us what is happening. This is not a calm discussion about heaven. It is a covenant courtroom moment, consistent with the wider judgment-and-transition setting of Matthew 21–25, where Jesus confronts failed covenant leadership and announces the passing of the old order.
Why the Sadducees?
The Sadducees denied the resurrection completely.³ They accepted primarily the Torah—the first five books of the Old Testament—and rejected much of the Prophets and Writings. Their question was not sincere. It was designed to mock the idea of resurrection by reducing it to a legal problem, drawing on the levirate marriage law in Deuteronomy 25:5–10.⁴
Once this background is understood, Jesus’ strategy becomes clear:
· He refuses their basic assumption.
· He corrects their categories of thought.
· He defeats them using their own Scriptures by citing Exodus rather than Daniel.⁵
Because of this, Jesus’ answer is first and foremost a direct challenge meant to expose Sadducean unbelief.
Is Jesus Commenting on Earthly Relationships?
Yes—but only in a secondary and corrective sense. Jesus says:
“In the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven.”⁶
It is important to be clear about what Jesus is not saying. He is not saying that relationships disappear. He is not saying that people lose their identity. He is not saying that love, recognition, or continuity come to an end.
What Jesus is saying is that marriage, like temple, sacrifice, and priesthood, is a covenant institution tied to mortal life—necessary within a death-marked order, but not carried forward unchanged into resurrection life. These are death-bound realities. Resurrection life does not continue structures that exist only to manage death.
Marriage exists because
people die.
Resurrection exists because death is defeated.
This understanding completely breaks the Sadducees’ argument. However, it also raises another question.
Is Jesus Describing Future Resurrection Relationships?
The best answer is: He does so only indirectly, and very carefully. Notice what Jesus does not do:
· He does not describe what relationships will be like.
· He does not explain emotional bonds.
· He does not speculate about recognition or continuity.
Jesus avoids these topics because they are not part of the debate. When He says people will be “like angels,” He does not mean they become sexless, non-relational, or ethereal beings. He means they are immortal. Luke 20:36 makes this explicit when it says they “cannot die anymore.”⁷
In short, people no longer marry because death is no longer a threat. Jesus is answering the Sadducees’ legal logic, not constructing a full doctrine of eternity.
The Real Focus: Covenant Life, Not Marriage
The center of Jesus’ answer is not verse 30, but verses 31–32. Jesus says:
“I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob. He is not the God of the dead but of the living.”⁸
This is the theological climax of the passage. God’s covenant relationship does not end at death. Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob still live to God. Resurrection is not argued from abstract philosophy, but from God’s covenant faithfulness.
The Sadducees attempted to turn resurrection into a legal absurdity. Jesus reframes it as covenant continuity.
Speculation about future
relationships is not the point, and Jesus intentionally leaves it undeveloped.
His answer exposes the Sadducees’ failure to understand Scripture, the power of
God, and covenant life itself. God is faithful—even beyond death.
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What About Marriage Instituted by God in Eden?
At this point, a natural question arises: how does the relationship of the first man and woman—Adam and Eve—fit into Jesus’ answer to the Sadducees?
In short, Adam and Eve show that marriage belongs to a death-managed stage of human history, not to resurrected life, even though marriage was created by God and called “very good.”⁹
1. Adam and Eve Before Death Entered the Story
In Genesis 1–2, marriage appears before sin and death enter the world. Genesis 2:24 says, “The two shall become one flesh.” Because of this, one might ask: if marriage existed before the Fall, why would it not exist after the resurrection?
This is a fair question—and it closely mirrors the logic the Sadducees were pressing, even if unintentionally. Jesus’ answer helps resolve it.
A Key Distinction
Marriage was created in a world that was capable of death, even though death had not yet occurred. Adam and Eve were not glorified, not confirmed in immortality, and still able to fall.
Resurrection life, by contrast, is permanent and irreversible. Those who are raised “cannot die anymore,” and they are raised imperishable.10
2. Marriage Was Provisional Even in Eden
Even in Eden, marriage served forward-looking purposes. God commanded Adam and Eve to “be fruitful and multiply.”¹¹ This involved filling the earth and extending God’s image through future generations. These purposes already assume time, succession, and unfinished creation. Marriage was good, but it was not final.
Jesus’ answer to the Sadducees does not deny creation; it clarifies where creation was headed.
3. Adam and Eve Compared to Resurrection Humanity
Though He does not spell it out, here is an important contrast one can assume from this answer and the teaching of Jesus:
|
Adam and Eve |
Resurrection Humanity |
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Created good but mutable |
Raised imperishable |
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Able to die |
Cannot die anymore |
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Commanded to multiply |
No need for succession |
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Marriage fills the earth |
Full number of the redeemed complete |
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Innocent but unglorified |
Glorified and confirmed |
Marriage belongs to creation in progress, not creation completed—good within the “already,” but not the final form of life in the “not yet” brought to fulfillment through resurrection.
4. Jesus’ Answer Reframed with Adam and Eve in View
When Jesus says, “In the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage,” He is not contradicting Eden. He is saying that resurrection does not return humanity to Genesis 2; it carries humanity beyond it.
Adam and Eve point forward. The resurrection arrives.
5. Revelation Confirms the Direction of the Story
Revelation does not picture a restored Eden that simply preserves earlier covenant forms. Instead, just as Babylon represents the collapse of Jerusalem and the old covenant order, the Bride represents the completed people of God—no longer mediated by provisional institutions, but united directly to the Lamb. Instead, it reveals:
· a new creation
· a single, corporate bride
· one covenant union between Christ and His people¹²
Adam and Eve were the first sign. The Bride of the Lamb is the final reality.
Paul makes this explicit when he writes, “This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.”¹³ Marriage was always meant to point beyond itself.
6. Why This Strengthens Jesus’ Reply to the Sadducees
The Sadducees assumed resurrection would freeze creation at one moment in history and extend it indefinitely. Jesus assumes something very different:
· creation moves forward
· covenant forms mature
· God brings provisional goods to completion
Adam and Eve do not weaken Jesus’ answer—they confirm it.
Marriage belongs to God’s good but unfinished creation. Resurrection life belongs to creation completed, where covenant relationship remains, but the temporary form of marriage gives way to its final fulfillment in union with Christ.
Matthew 22, then, belongs to the same covenant movement already traced in Matthew 21–25. Jesus is not answering an abstract question about the afterlife, but exposing the failure of old-order thinking to grasp resurrection life. Just as the temple, sacrifices, and priesthood were not carried forward unchanged, marriage itself is shown to be a provisional covenant form—good within its time, but not permanent. Revelation does not contradict this teaching; it completes it. What Matthew announces in debate form, Revelation reveals in symbolic fulfillment: the old order passes away, and the people of God are gathered into a single, resurrected covenant union with Christ.
This leads us naturally to Revelation 19 and the marriage
described there.
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Covenant Continuity and Covenant Form
From the Marriage Debate to the Bride of the Lamb
In Matthew 22, the Sadducees attempted to disprove the resurrection by using marriage. They imagined a woman who had been married seven times and ask whose wife she would be after the resurrection. Their question assumed that resurrection must simply extend present life unchanged. Jesus rejected this assumption and explained that resurrection life is real, but governed by different realities than mortal life.¹⁴
Jesus said that in the resurrection people do not marry, but are “like the angels in heaven.”¹⁵ By this statement He is not denying relationship, but mortality. Marriage belongs to a world where people die; resurrection belongs to a world where death has been overcome.
Jesus then proved the resurrection by appealing to covenant identity: “I am the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.”16 God’s covenant relationship persists beyond death. What changes is not covenant life, but covenant form.
Revelation 19–21 carries this same logic forward. God’s people are portrayed as a bride, and Christ as the bridegroom.17 The image is corporate, not individual. The “marriage of the Lamb” is the fulfillment toward which earthly marriage always pointed.¹⁸
Earthly marriage was never the final goal. It was a sign. When resurrection life arrives, the sign gives way to the reality. God dwells with His people, and relationship remains—but now shaped by eternal life rather than mortality.¹⁹
Matthew 22 and Revelation 19–21 teach the same truth from different angles. God’s covenant faithfulness does not end, but death-bound covenant structures do. Marriage, like temple and sacrifice, belongs to a passing order. In the resurrection, those forms give way to full life with God, shared by all His people forever.20
The resurrection does not undo God’s good creation; it completes it. Marriage, like temple and sacrifice, belonged to a world marked by death and served a real purpose within that world. Jesus’ answer to the Sadducees does not deny covenant relationship, but reveals that covenant life does not depend on death-bound forms. What began in Eden as a sign of shared life finds its fulfillment not in the extension of earthly marriage, but in the resurrection life of God’s people gathered to Christ. The Bride of the Lamb is not the loss of relationship, but its consummation—life with God, and with one another, no longer shaped by mortality, but by the power of an unending covenant.
Endnotes:
1. Matt. 22:23–28.
2. Matt. 22:29.
3. Acts 23:8.
4. Deut. 25:5–10.
5. Matt. 22:31–32; Exod. 3:6.
6. Matt. 22:30.
7. Luke 20:36.
8. Matt. 22:32.
9. Gen. 1:31; 2:24.
10. Luke 20:36; 1 Cor. 15:42–54.
11. Gen. 1:28.
12. Rev. 19:7; 21:2.
13. Eph. 5:32.
14. Matt. 22:23–30.
15. Matt. 22:30.
16. Matt. 22:31–32.
17. Rev. 19:7–9; 21:2.
18. Rev. 19:7.
19. Rev. 21:3–4.
20. Rev. 21:22–27.